Jane Adams PhD
5 min readApr 22, 2021

Which Relationships Survived the Pandemic and Which Didn't?

“Have you gotten your vaccine yet?” has lately replaced “How are you?” among the people I text, talk to, see when I walk the dog or stay in touch with on social media. It’s even replaced the organ recital that sometimes constitutes conversation among people my age.

Now that I and many of them are answering affirmatively, we are emerging gingerly from lockdowns and isolation like survivors of a nuclear holocaust in one of those old movies like On the Beach. We are not being foolish; we’re not making any reservations we can’t cancel with no fee, we’re thinking of flying…

Jane Adams PhD

Jane Adams is an author, coach and social psychologist whose books include "Boundary Issues" and "When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us."