Turning in the Rioters
Family members may be estranged over values—or settling old scores.

Jane Adams PhD
5 min readFeb 17, 2021

Politics has long made strange bedfellows. My parents exemplified that cliché, living their differences in public, as leaders of both the local Republican (him) and Democratic (her) town committees, and in private, with frequent full, frank, and occasionally four-letter-word exchanges of views. But they never divorced or drew blood over their differences, simply cancelled out each other’s vote.

When I hear of people identifying their spouses, siblings, parents, children, or…

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Jane Adams PhD

Jane Adams is an author, coach and social psychologist whose books include "Boundary Issues" and "When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us."